10 Things that I learn from 2016

It's finally the end of 2016. This year I really felt like I learn a lot from this part of my life, so I would like to share 10 Things that I learn from 2016. 

1. BREATHING means you are alive

I really appreciate if I woke up and I still breathing. A lot of things happen in 2016, there were also some of my colleague's family who passed away this year. When you still alive and you family still around you be grateful about that. In the morning I always pray that I really thanks GOD for giving me another chance to do something better today. When I did that I know that day will be awesome, because the way you think will determine how you felt that day.

2. Control your EGO

I really learn that this year ! yeah a lot !! I worked now and I can't be someone who still become like the one in my university days. I can't do something that freely and let my EGO control my days. yeah. Sometime that might be happen but let your EGO stay calm and do your best as today is the last day of your life. That really effective to conquer your EGO.

3. Believing yourself

Knowing yourself more, upgrade your capacity, and keep your dream high. Believe that YOU can do everything and YOU really someone who awesome :D but, never be the one who overconfident because became someone overconfident will take you down.

4. Moving Forward

Moving forward doesn't means that you'll be on the FAST TRACK, moving forward means that you keep moving to your goals with everything you have and everything that happen in your life. You can move slowly, as long as you moving forward. Something on your back might be really good and sometime you want to look back and move to that time again, but you won't reach your goal if you keep look back. Let the memories became a memories.

5. God is always PROVIDE

Keep your faith in GOD and He will provide everything for you, and more than what you think.

I always asking myself how to find God first when I did a lot of things, but if I spare a time for God that not that much and I still can do all of the things that I planned and the result might be better than I keep busy doing something. He knows when the right time for us, never complaint.

6. GIVE YOUR HEART TO GOD, AND TRUST HIM !!

The things that really hard for me was trusting that God has a really good plan for me. I started this year with a big burden on my shoulder, yeah I need to be independent, why God let me be like this, why and a lot of why I asked. But, I joined a community to study about bible and I decide to place everything on the palm of God's hands. I just need to trust HIM more than ever. Sometimes, I kept myself asking why why and why. But, I think I can have a peace when I trust HIM more than the last time, more than yesterday.

7. He allowed you to be on the TRIAL

No one ever success if they never be on the bottom. Someone might be success with their own, but is it TRUE ? can I become a really good leader ? We need to reach the top from the bottom so we might be more considerable with the situation. That not the way to compromise, but the way to be humble and being someone who can impact the other. He want you to be a leader who will be more than just a leader.

8. Being Grateful with everything you have

When you have your own life and you always compare with everyone life you never satisfied with what you have, they said that your life also awesome on the other eyes. Never compare yourself and being grateful with what you have now. Think as everything is a lesson that you need to take to reach your dream.

9. Keep you life on TRACK

I tried to planned everything that I need to do, what I need to do and what I need to prepare. Sometime what you prepare is not happen in reality, but keep planning, you can't live only with one plan. If you kept everything on the right track you'll learn something from what you did and what you decided.

10. Always look from more than one side

This might be the last but this also important matter. When you look something only from one side you won't find anything deeper, you will only think bad, especially when something bad happen. It's about how to survived and the basic of life. I did some interview and most of them asked about my good and bad personality, I think that every personality might be have their own good and bad, something good if that over might be bad.

How's about yours ? if you have something to share you can share on the comment below :D

Have a nice 2 days more of 2016 :D

2016 was AWESOME but I hope that 2017 will be better !!

KUALA LUMPUR : DAY 3 & Last Day

The last day of my trips, I decided to go to Petronas Tower (yeah everyone who visited KL must be there at least once) yeah the icon of Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. On the second day finally we found a way to go to Merdeka square and that quite near with our hotel. So, we decide to went there in the morning to take a trip from museum to museum and the left to KLCC to played at Pertrosains and Petronas Tower. The museum is FREE yeah totally FREE (for foreigner too) but for the KL Gallery you need to pay RM 5 to entrance but that ticket can be used to buy something from the shop later.

The museum is not that big and we came early so no one there, yeah only us !! that quite exclusive and really good. That's remind me to Indonesia's museum in Jakarta. They also display the same things but that looks different. That might be because of the lighting. The place is smaller than in Jakarta but I can saw the differ of their culture from that small room. We moved to Muzik museum. That's smaller than the previous ones. Really good organized but we met someone from Indonesia. I know that feeling so I kept quite and don't talked too much. Yeah she asked for money, she said that the museum didn't paid her well. But, if the museum didn't paid her well why she stayed there, if she want a better paid or better opportunities she need to move out from her comfort zone. I really hate that mentality, you already moved outside the country but the mentality is still the same. We only spent around 15-30 minutes there and go back to the bus stop near our hotel. We took the purple line (GoKL) bus to go to Bukit Bintang (again) to transit to KLCC line, we must be wait for the right bus, but we took the wrong bus and we decided to see the city for a while and just sat in the row behind. That really funny to see the announcement because they always repeated about bas percuma, which means in Bahasa percuma is useless but in Malay percuma means FREE. I think I am quite adapted with the situation.

After a long track from the wrong bus we stop  at Pavillion Bus Stop to wait for the right bus to KLCC. The bus was crowded with people, that might be because the KLCC is the place to someone to work. When we arrived at the Twin Tower already past 12, so we decided to ate first at the food court, the taste is quite good but the price is reasonable. The mall feels like MBS at Singapore but the food price is really reasonable. When we arrived I asked my friend is it the Petronas Tower ? Because that tower just look like some building at Jalan Sudirman, and my friend said YES. Petronas Tower is a building on business district and that building became an icon because I think Petronas is the most powerful sources at Malaysia. My friend said that if I want to take a picture in front of Petronas Tower we need to moved to the park or other building to stop and take a photo. we moved to the park but nothing there. I only saw the crowd of people who used a really formal suit in the afternoon that might be wedding or something like that (maybe) I also not sure because some of them bring a goody bag with a brand name. So, I decide to took the building only (without me) because I really hate the smell of smoke from the cigarette. Ahhh. yeah we also visited the Petrosains. We spent RM 30 for adult entrance fee and we took around 30 minutes just to wait to entrance with the train. The first things that I saw is the MARS things and that really exciting but that really crowded and I think me and my friend have a different taste with this SCIENCE things, so we decide just look around then left (we took around 2 hours only for looking around with a flash moved. This place is recommended for below 12 child who really love science. #lol.

Not that much, so we moved to Bukit Bintang once more, but we decided to tried the bridge which said we can walked from KLCC to Bukit Bintang. We get in to the mall because the bridge was quite long and then the weather was too hot to move around the road so we decide to look around the mall, a shop really catch our eyes quickly !! yeah SPAO, I didn't know that SPAO opened their stored at KL so I didn't bring that much to spent on SPAO, the price is quite reasonable and I met EXO oppa there #lo. I really excited and the SALE is everywhere. I decided to buy a shirt with Pluto on the front and the material is really good. I saw some of Red Velvet dress but not affordable because I didn't bring that much money and I need to saving !! yeah next time KOREA next time. I just barely life like beggar for the night (at least I can tried the claypot that I want that like crazy). I saw that on the first day but we already ate something.

The food was GOOD but the crowded is the other problem, we need to wait for the table and the table that we sat is near without the tent, fortunately the rain was done before we ate. The claypot is quite big and I think that we can eat that portion for 3 people.

On our last day we decided to woke up late and going to NU sentral to eat our early lunch before we left to the airport. We ate SUBWAY (yeah that subs really cheap) and we buy the long ones. we already felt full that time but we want to tried any Korean food at the NU sentral. The food that we order was TOPPOKI. yeah full of cheese of course !! But, that takes 30 minutes and we didn't want to missed our flight like what our friend told us that they missed the flight due to the immigration and the traffic.

We arrived really early at the airport, there were a lot of Muslim who will flied to Saudi, that really touching me. I didn't know about how in INDONESIA but they pray and they said that before they left they have their own time to forgive and be forgiven by their family. But, I never saw that before in Indonesia. I think that really good to started the journey. We waited for an hour until the check in counter open, my friend want to tried the Old Town, so we sat at the cafe.

We passed the immigration like the priority, yeah no one there. ONLY US and the officer. That might be why the officer asked us a lot not that much like where were you going and how's stayed in KL, but he used Malay not English so I tried my best to understand quickly. We also arrived early and the gate also not open yet ! we waited outside and found a lonely planet store. But, the price is still high. So, we waited at the front of the gate. But, our flight was delay T.T yeah but I am okay to be early than if I was late.

Overall this trip was FUN but I don't think this is the best trip if I compare with my previous trip. So, I hope that I'll go to Thai again next year (yeah again) ^^ I hope that would be AWESOME too like this trip. So, waited for my update about my trip ahead on 2017 !! 

KUALA LUMPUR : DAY 2

Hello,

I'll continue my stories about my trip. I'll share my photos from our trip on my facebook, if you want to know more please visit this link : https://www.facebook.com/fitapauline.fitatha/media_set?set=a.10207828336088172.1073741991.1288095416&type=3 (but there are a lot of selfie too) #lol

we tried to went to the church (we checked the time and place) we walked through the road but we couldn't find anything, so we decided to walk further to see anything around there. Finally we found the telkom museum, but that closed on weekend. So, we waited for the free bus (bas percuma) at the bus stop to go to the KL Tower. we only need to waited for 2 or 3 stops from there. The bus was quite packed but okay lah for 2 or 3 stops and we arrived at the KL Tower Bus Stop, but we need to walked again to the entrance gate and we need to hike ? OH NO !! yeah, we found the shuttle that will help us reach the tower. We took the package for a whole things that we can tried, yes EVERYTHING, you need to paid RM 115 at the counter. We arrived early so no one at the sky deck that time. I really love to see something from above when you can reach the sky and look how great is the city :D I can't move on from that place easily so we decide to turn a round and take the photo later, BUT that was prohibit to go to the opposite direction. so, we decided to take a photo at the sky box that nearest to the exit. I was nervous ? NO. but the one who earlier than me really scared but they are around my age and they are a MAN !! yeah they already grow up. The other, Germany tourist, said that if you afraid means that you grow older. #lol

The sky deck not that big and quite famous so everyone want to take a picture, I suggested to come early to get the best experience and take a good photo without photo boom !!! :D after that we went to observation deck, nothing there (seriously), and we went to the ground floor again and tried the 4D there, but the only thing that I got from there were WIND !! yeah I felt like I was unwell after that. we went downstairs and found a mini aquarium, mini zoo, and F1 simulator. If you bring your child or your lil cousin, or your nephew that might be worth but if you go by yourself and your age is around 20 something that might be not so interesting (except you really like animal and sea). I tried to looked excited because there were a lot of people who will be your guide there especially at the mini zoo. I love animal but if I need to pay that much I prefer to go to Taman Safari or the real zoo there. yah RM 155 is too much for me to spent for that. the F1 simulator also only the simulation like you played the racing car on the game zone at the mall. JUST LIKE THAT !! 

at least I can write that as my review now !! :D 

Then I went to the upside down something, I forgot the name. I need to waited for around 30 minutes to wait for the que and I only been there for at last 15 minutes at the small house. I thought that might be something but that place is only for take a photo. I enjoyed that but just THAT, not really excited.

I went out by walked to the main gate, that quite far but I just want to try and I took another free bus to Bukit Bintang area, I tried to find jalan alor but I got a mall. There are several mall around the bus stop !

Day 2 was the most tired day from our trip, we walked a lot and we used a proper dress because we plan to go to the church first, so I didn't bring my slipper with me. I hate to walked with a pretty sandals. After we lost in Bukit Bintang we decided to walked to our HOTEL the maps said that not so far from there. BUT, we lost again and the rain started to drop slowly and then byurrrr ... yeahhhh that became BIG after a while, so we rest at the IT mall, we couldn't see anything we didn't bring a lot of money but everything just asked me to pick one of them, yeah the price is quite affordable than in Jakarta !! we spent almost an hour (maybe) then we decided to go back to our hotel and go to the market (again) we walked to merdeka square but we couldn't find any sign to there so we decided to walked later. we went to central market (again) but we didn't buy anything we only ate at the Indian Restaurant there and go to the flea market to find another food, but go to the loong ki stall and a friend and boiled fish ball and siomay. I missed Thai sausage !!

I think that the end of my Day 2 stories !! 

HALF BACKPACKER : KUALA LUMPUR - DAY 1

Yeahh, finally I had an opportunity to spent my own money to traveling with my friend, yeah, this time I went with my friend, Vania. She had been to KL last year but she said that this trip a whole new world to her.

As usual, I planned everything ahead before leaving, but I didn't prepare that much and I think that I spent 4 days only around KL might be not worth enough. sure, that happened to this trip. I couldn't say that I was satisfied with the trip, but it's okay for me.

I only spend IDR 3 500 000 (all in, included with the airplane return, meal, taxi, roaming, EVERYTHING) that's around below USD 300. we took a free bus (GO KL) and the cheapest transportation that we can take. this trip was crazy enough because I never didn't bring any money back after traveling, but I don't have any MYR now. The Hotel also nice, that really near closed with everything (if you know how to explore that place around the Hotel), the room was NOT BAD for the old building, but I never imagine that I will stayed at the hotel like that. I think that I already adapt with that situation now.

Where I need to started to tell you about my latest trip ? I think I'll start with the airport accident. We came really early and we couldn't found our flight on the screen so, I got a headache if the flight was canceled but they didn't told us in advance. we waited for a while and asked the customer service, but the check in counter also didn't show any sign for our flight. The officer told us to stand on that que and said that will be the counter for our flight, so we passed the first check in counter and went to the immigration, so far so good, we found a roaming package at the airport and that's really cheap because for 3 days, 1 GB data, we only need to paid for IDR 135 000 (included with the card). we took lion air for our flight to KL and NO DELAYED !! yey, this is the first time for me when the flight wasn't delayed at all. BUT LION AIR never fail to disappointed me. THE AIR CONDITIONER were not working at all before the take off and the airplane que is quite long, that was the worst condition ever at the airplane :( :( too hot and too crowd so I think that might be really uncomfortable moment. we landed at KL (safely) and took our baggage. But, we were lost at the airport to find the bus to KL Sentral, so we missed the bus and need to waited for another 30 minutes. we used bus because we only need to spent RM 10 than using KLIA Express we need to spent RM 55. When the Bus came a group of people just passing through us, I thought that the want to take the exit but they pilfered the que (I thought that might be better to travel abroad but the habit is still the habit). we took the bus and that really worth because we can use the wi fi on board and there weren't any traffic, we spent an hour at the bus, but our stomach really need to be filled with the food ASAP, or we will turn into the beast.

After arrived at KL Sentral, we went directly to any fast food where we can take the food ASAP, so we decided to choose between McD or KFC but we found McD first so we ate there with a meal set of prosperity burger, that was the tastiest burger ever in my life because I was too hungry to ate anything, if I need to ate veggie that might be the best veggie ever (P.S : I really hate veggie). after we ate (that already around 6 p.m) we moved to the LRT platform to go to the HOTEL and when we arrived the hotel building is really eye catching for the LRT platform. we walked to the hotel an quite amazed with the old stuff at the receptionist. I thought that if I couldn't sleep I will moved to the other hotel but I think our hotel is better then the other around there, the air conditioner is really cold and that really nice. We unpack our stuff and decide to looked around the area and we found the flea market & central market, we spent our 50% budget on the first day T.T oh no, I never spent that much on the first day, but I also know that we wouldn't have a lot of time to shop if not on the first day, so after that we count every RM that we have for the next 3 days. we ate dim sum to waited for the rain, but the rain still falling so we decided to passed through the rain.

to be continued on the DAY 2 stories

WORKLIFE

It has been 2 years since I started working, I left my job last September and now I am taking my master degree at Chongqing University. During my work days, I thinking a lot about this and that, like what I need to do, is it the right pathway for me, am I happy enough, how to be better, why I never say enough for everything. I kept asking myself and doubt about that path. I am also considering to take my master degree so I can apply for R&D department for Biotechnology Company. Then, I decided to apply for this scholarship for the first time and I got it (I felt like why before, but I think I need to be thankful for that). I also still consider about the lab work and being a scientist. I think I love science but I don't think so. Hahaha. 

I wrote this that time when I was doubt about my job, is it the right one what will I do next? Will I move out and get something new? Can I get something better. When I saw my friends sometimes I am envy with what they have been but when we meet up and talk with our life everything and everywhere is the same and some of my friends also told me that my job is quite good. That might be why people never satisfied with what they have because we keep comparing ourselves with the others. 

I am reviewing this post again after a year and found out that I need to revise this post before I publish this post. Hahaha. 

After walking with "scientific" dream, I repeated the same pathway again, felt like it's really not me, why I need to be here, why I am not satisfied with this and that and I think if I moved to another things it's also keep on this pathway. Am I on the right path? I remember the videos that I saw on Facebook during my first month after I worked at my previous company. When you are still on your 20's keep trying and keep learning. One of my lecturer also said that bachelor degree is the time you grown as a mature - more than just a student and prepare yourself to workplace, master degree allows you to learn how to think. Is it okay to work at different major after I graduated from my master degree? Sure, all of them is a process at least you're still on 20's period, it is the right time to know yourself better then anyone else. 

Nothing is meaningless, everything happens for a reason. You only need to find that reason to be grateful and keep moving forward. Working is not about how much money that you get (but I think you also need to consider about that) but money is not everything. I learn that you'll get a right job at the right time. So, don't need to worry to be "not in your right place", you still have a time to move and find your passion. 

I think for now I have 2.5 years to think what my calling is. Hahaha. I think I know but I am not sure, I am just started with this journey. It might be just a while and still can't move on from what my daily lifestyle from my past daily life.

Working was nice, I can have my own then by my own things, and spent to what I want to do, what I want to learn and manage my own. When you have your own money you'll consider this and that then how to make your money works. Hahaha. Because for me I am not working for money but I need money to get what I want that why I was work. Hahaha

Happiness is SIMPLE

I am not saying that you can be the one who always be THE HAPPY MAN/WOMAN on EARTH, but how to make your life more meaningful being HAPPY is SIMPLE. I think everyone have their own trick to trigger their happiness, but I think most of people love to have a quality time with their friends, colleague, family, and maybe their books or pets.

I found out today that I think I can have an easier life when I spent my time with LAUGH, yeah because sometimes when we met someone (yeah some of our bestie) we talked about PROBLEM and serious matter (sometimes) but we never spent most of our time with LAUGH. I don't know maybe because NOW we need to be more serious, the problem become bigger and the TIME to play and have fun is not enough for us.

I don't think that I need to tell my problem but that problem were GONE when I laugh, so the HAPPINESS is really SIMPLE :)

Everyone have their own way to have their HAPPY TIMES, you need to found out what you like the most and why were you smile. yeah your problem and your burden will be GONE after your really know how to make your heart smile for a little and being greatful for everything :) because sometime you didn't realized that the only thing you need is a SMILE :D

Today, 

I really spent a GOOD & FUN time, I never had such a HAPPY SATURDAY for awhile due to my thought, yeah life become harder and harder, I need to decide, I need to think twice, or anything that quite hard to adapt that drastically from my HAPPY UNI DAYS ! #lol I need to do what an adult do and I know that is a MUST, yeah I need to grow up and wake up from the dreams of my HAPPY UNI DAYS to the reality, because I know that I need to be more mature and become a REAL ADULT ~ I almost mid 20.

LIFE IS HARD so make it easy with your SMILE :) you won't ever stop having a problem in your life, just FACE it and keep going ^^

BACK TO TRAIN STORY

Finally, after I gathered my idea and my will about what I need to write about my Commuter Line Life ! I did it now ! #lol I often used commuter line for awhile due to my works. so, I didn't have any stories about that. 

That day I forgot to bring my earphone and the train was really crowded due to the signaling trouble (again), yeah rainy days means the signal would be DIE for awhile. The train came really often but the passengers already waiting and the numbers grows too fast for several minutes. I waited for the feeder ones, but the ones from Jakarta was coming and the space is ENOUGH for me to get in to the train. Hufft, I really want to arrived soon, so I tried my best to stayed on my position whatever the other will pushed me somewhere. 

I heard a lot of stories, the respond, the one who shout to the other, the one who care, the one who don't care and the one who listened like me. yeah the crowd is really AWESOME and UNBEARABLE I didn't remember when I really felt like I used the train like I play a roller coaster without the seat belt, the door can't be closed, and everyone try to get in to the train, than the other said that this train look like a zombie who ready to eat the other and the air conditioner not working that well, the smell is really bad due to the sweat, trust me stayed in the ladies train will be better than the mixed one, I tried to used that sometimes if I want to get in but the train will be on board soon.

If I compared that situation with the K-MOVIE Train to BUSAN that quite similar but the passengers are normal not the infected one. #lol the movie became alive. 

What you need to prepare ? your mentality, your souls, and your ears when someone might be shout somewhere  near your ears and that would make you shock. lol

I tried my best to write this but I'll update if I have something to write about this things again.

HIDUP

entah ini sudah keberapa kalinya saya mengganti judul dan isinya, tapi sekarang semoga akhirnya jadi. Banyak pertimbangan yang saya pikirkan ketika menulis suatu artikel, tentu bukan hanya untuk sebagai tempat untuk mengapresiasikan pemikiran saya saja, tapi juga bagaimana kira-kira tanggapan orang yang membaca tulisan saya :") karena saya juga harus bertanggung jawab dengan apa yang saya tuliskan.

Yah... saya berasa TUA karena akhir akhir ini saya banyak berpikir mengenai HIDUP, buat apa saya hidup, bagaimana cara mencapai impian itu, apakah tindakan saya benar atau salah, apakah keputusan saya benar, apa yang harus saya lakukan, dsb. Banyak pertanyaan yang terlintas di kepala, kadang hati dan kepala juga sering tidak sync. mulai kembali mencari quotes, inspirasi, yah pkoknya berbagai cara bagaimana supaya tetap dalam kondisi pribadi yang positif. mempertahankan itu yang terkadang sulit. 

Menjadi orang yang extrovert itu juga tidak semenyenangkan itu, terkadang memang hidup itu terlihat menyenangkan, tidak ada beban, hidupnya pokoknya kaya enak banget lah. tapi ngga juga lah, hidup teteplah hidup. hahahaha. entah kenapa hidup itu kenapa sih harus berat ? yah soalnya kalo enteng nanti orang menyepelekan hidupnya. hahaha. kalo berat terus bisa menang atas masalahnya kita akan lebih menghargai karena HIDUP itu SUSAH.

katanya sih kalo misalkan habit itu karena sudah diajarkan dari kecil akan sulit untuk diubah dan itu sudah menjadi dasarnya, tapi saya adalah bukti nyata bahwa habit dan sifat itu bisa berubah, ketika kita mau membuka diri dan belajar menjadi lebih baik, kuncinya yah niat dari diri sendiri, kenapa ga bisa berubah karena emang dari orangnya ga niat.

Kalo cuma mengandalkan hidup yang biasa-biasa aja dan tetep hidup biasa-biasa aja yah ga akan menjadi luar bisa, tentu untuk mendapatkan hidup yang luar biasa yah cara kita hidup juga harus luar bias gabisa biasa-biasa aja. SUSAH ? jelas lah, hidup biasa aja susah apalagi kehidupan yang lebih dari biasa. Selama perjalanan tentu ada aja yang namanya masa-masa yang berat, masa dimana merasa tidak berguna, masa dimana bahwa membuat diri kita kecil, ya itu pasti terjadi, siapapun anda, dimana pun anda, dari keluarga manapun anda itu pasti akan terjadi. mau sekaya apapun sehebat apapun menurut saya sih itu pasti akan tetap terjadi, tapi orang yang hebat itu bisa bangun dari masa-masa keterpurukan itu, mengalahkan pemikirannya dan terus maju kedepan disaat yang kalah itu akan statis pada tempat tersebut atau bahkan berbalik lagi ke titik yang lebih belakang lagi.

Memotivasi diri itu salah satu cara yang paling efektif untuk membangun diri menjadi lebih baik, berdoalah karena TUHAN selalu ada, bertekunlah dalam hal-hal yang positif dan bertemanlah dengan orang yang positif juga.

waktu akan terus selalu berputar, hidup itu juga ada batasnya, jadi nikmatilah. 

buang jauh-jauh pikiran yang negatif, bekerjalah lebih baik, bersikaplah lebih baik, dan lakukan hal yang baik karena apa yang kita tabur itu yang kita tuai.

Be yourself and you won't regret anything in your life ~

EVERYONE DREAM OF HOLLYWOOD, BUT HERE I COME BOLLYWOOD

I never dream to visit INDIA before, but GOD gave me an occasion to visited India at least once in my lifetime. so, here I will tell you my stories about my INDIA TRIP, this trip is my business trip, but I tried my best to take sometime to look around INDIA at least the place to eat and the city of MUMBAI.

I got my visa a week before I went to INDIA, yeyyy !! #excitedmodeon

I tried to look up what I can do there and where I can go by myself after working, but I found nothing. I also looking for the FOOD but that's totally not my style. #lol. I really don't know but I tried to get excited to go there (for sure), so.... D-DAY is coming !!!

I used Singapore Airlines and I need to transit at Changi Airport (I have been there for a while last Oct). Here am I ... MUMBAII !! ACHA ACHAA .... (*dancing*)

Yeah I arrived on midnight !! I waited for around 30 mins on the immigration counter. I need to spent another 3 hours by car to touchdown at my hotel. 

The time flies fast, I slept late and wake up late too. Then, I used the car to go to work. I talked with the driver and the driver said that yuk yuk or they called that Rica can accommodate up to 14 peoples. OMG. Lol. 

The food also not that BAD, I really can easily adapt with that food but I can't adapt with the driver way to drive their car T.T

Do you know that the traffic is really bad, they can spent 2 hours for 6 km. That's worse than JAKARTA and Bangkok. I know that for sure ...But, when I was there I never felt that traffic, the maximum is an hour for 5-6 km. Jakarta still the worst especially when raining.

I spent my 4 days to work, and another 6-7 hours to visiting some place in MUMBAI, yeah the human traffic is worst than the traffic in the main road. MUMBAI also a great city with a great building, the university also really awesome. Here are some photos that I took before. I think I really look like a foreigner there, someone asked me for a selca there !! lol I felt like a celebrities.

or you can check my facebook album on this link : https://www.facebook.com/fitapauline.fitatha/media_set?set=a.10207255625970777.1073741988.1288095416&type=3&pnref=story

I felt like this is quite tiring for me, I don't have a specific time to wake up and sleep. #lol. I think I need more time to sleep but I also think that I spent most of my time to sleep. #lol

I found some interesting fact about INDIA, let me share with you :D

• every khan in INDIA is a Moslem, and Shahrul Khan is the KING of KHAN
• India has several production from their own region, BOLLYWOOD means a production from MUMBAI.
• Nei means NO, and acha means YES.
• Kuch Kuch Hotahe means Something Happens
• India has more than 50 languages and some of them don't have any writing language, just spoken ones.

I only remember that now, if I remember anything I'll update on my post soon :D 

Hey ! It's been a long time !

Due to my schedule, that quite hard for me to update what I need to update. I tried to keep that draft but I can't finished that on time. So, I'll update about my trip to INDIA .. yeah. not for fun but I'll give you a review about INDIA. yeahh. I never think that I'll be there SOON ! hahaha. That's not one of my dream. But, I am really thankful for that opportunity, because I won't be there if I am not coming for work. I'll left on Sunday. So, I think I'll update next Sunday or next next week. But, I am sure that I'll update for that. I missed my update about Thailand because I wrote in my previous blog that I used for travel update. lol :D maybe I need to move that to this blog this weekend. so, make sure stay tuned on my blog !! yeah I promise to update soon !!!

BAB 3 : TAK KENAL MAKA TAK SAYANG

Kali ini judul yang saya angkat kali ini ialah tak kenal maka tak sayang.
So, kali ini saya akan memperkenalkan kereta commuter line lintas JABODETABEK

Gambar diatas merupakan gambar PETA dari Commuter Line aka CL untuk JABODETABEK.

Sebenarnya lintasnya hanya ada BEKASI, BOGOR, TANGGERANG, dan MAJA karena untuk tujuan DEPOK bisa bersamaan dengan lintas BOGOR, uituk SERPONG juga bisa dengan lintas maja. Jadi karens saya sekarang ini sering transit dan sudah ikutan update di KRL Mania jadi saya juga mau berbagi info dengan kalian mengenai apa yang saya tau tentang perkeretaan, jika ada pertanyaan dapat ditanyakan di comment loh ^^

Ada berbagai macam kereja, warna merah, biru, kuning. Sejauh mata memandang dan jenis kereta yang digunakan sepertinya yang merah agak bulat lebih enak dibandingkan yang lain, ACnya beneran dan tidak menggunakan kipas. Tapi ga semua sih, soal kadang juga kalo AC doang pas lagi pengap yang di tambah dengan KIPAS angin still the best lah, cuma kalo dibawahnya jadi masuk angin aja. hahaha

Antriannya kalo ga punya kartu yang buat langsung masuk itu GILA banget .. iya GILANYA PAKE BANGET. hahaha. soalnya sekarang kan sebagian besar sudah pake mesin, jadi ga bisa dilayani, untuk yang baru mungkin akan lebih susah untuk menggunakan itu.

Hal yang PALING HITS di dunia perkeretaan itu SINYAL MASUK MANGGARAI, saya rasa foto dibawah ini dapat menggambarkan betapa mengerikannya sinyal masuk manggarai, dan ini ternyata terasanya bukan cuma lintas tanah abang tapi untuk semua jurusan, bukan hanya membutuhkan keberuntungan tapi juga kegigihan untuk bertahan,

iya sinyal masuk manggarai itu yah dari berbagai sudut, cikini, sudirman, tebet, dan jatinegara. Kereta dateng setiap 5-10 menit sekali, tapi entah kenapa tetep aja KETAHAN itu MESTI. hahaha. :) minimal 5-10 menit. pernah sih kece abis itu ga ketahan sama sekali yang dari sudirman ke manggarai, eh yang cikininya yang ketahannya gila :( sama aja deh pulangnya tetep lama T.T

:) yah tapi kadang yah ada hikmahnya juga sih kena sinyal manggarai menambah teman seperjalanan yang mungkin tidak akan kita temui lagi kemudian waktu. hahaha. ^^ semua kisah mengenai MANGGARAI itu memang hal yang sakral. hahaha. 

Hal berikutnya yang quite HITS itu masinisnya yang kece karena mereka memberikan pengumuman yang tidak sesuai dengan yang biasanya ataupun ucapan berkali-kali mengucapkan bahwa mohon maaf kereta anda sedang tertahan di sinyal masuk ...... atau misalkan akan disusul oleh kereta ..... yah begitulah. Tapi kadang mereka cukup interaktif dalam memberikan informasi (KADANG) cara mengemudinya juga ada yang jago, tapi ada juga yang sukanya tersendat gitu jalannya. hahaha.

apalagi yahh... coba saya berpikir sejenak. kalo misalkan ada yang lain lagi nanti saya update lagi tapi kalo ngga nanti ya udh tunggu update selanjutnya. 

ONE CHAMPIONSHIP : TITLES & TITANS

This is my really LATE POST for my last draft, I took a while because I really don't know about what I need to write and I didn't have any explanation about that. So, I will be briefly start this post (again).

I would like to say before I explain all of my stories about this experience (for sure). I supposed to be there because I got an email that I got 4 free tickets. I didn't know anything and I asked a lot to my friend who really want to watched that. 

Gate open : 6 p.m then they said that the matched will be start at 7 pm (on ticket) but I waited for half and an hour to the opening stage :( I watched 1 match for less than 1 minutes and wait for another 10 minutes. That's made me really think that I prefer to watch on TV than in the REAL STAGE, but I felt really accomplish because I could watch that LIVE, I never think before that I will watch something like that for sure, I really don't like to watched FIGHTING or anything like that.

But, I really amazed that the ladies fighter is really pretty and I never imagine that someone like that would be a MMA Fighter. I found out later that a lot of MMA fighter is not doing a body building, because they just look normal :D

yeah I think that's all about my stories. #lol. I really can't describe anything about this more than this. Sorry, but I just want to share about that !! 

The Movie : Alice Through The Looking Glass

It's been a while after I watched any movie on theater :) I really love Jhonny Depp and I know that I really love alice stories. So, I have a short time after my work so I decide to watched this movie, and I found out something that really interesting especially about TIME. 

I felt that Alice really don't want to grew up, but she is not a peter pan so she was grow older. I don't really know why the stories start with her journey as a ship captain. But, I felt like sometime everyone also have a really BIG DREAM and they have their own ambition to reach that dream. you can do anything impossible when you think that everything have their own possibility. :)

How about grow up ? yeah we need to face the TRUTH that we are grow older and older, someone who is younger than us already waiting to have the ADULT status when we still couldn't move on that we need to be an ADULT. Being old means that you need to take more responsibility and how you can manage yourself. your parent won't tell everything that you need to do.

This movie told me about how precious is our FAMILY and our TIME, we couldn't change the past but we can learn from that, every decision that we would take later might be the result what we do NOW, and what we need to face now is what we did before. time flies, and if you can take that time again I think something like that might be happen again because YOU are YOU. 

The authority might be give you some pressure in your life, but what will you do to face that is your own will. 

I felt like I am not sure why I need to like this movie when this movie started, but I really love this movie when the movie END :) I learn a lot, and if you have enough time to watched and hang out with your friends, I really recommend this movie.

ENOUGH for today ! :)

Special Edition : Special TRAIN for a WOMAN

Hello ! I supposed to post this article like two weeks ago or three weeks ago,
I am not really sure about that but this post is really late after I post in Bahasa version.

So, I already told you that in JABODETABEK they have a special train for woman, every commuter line has 2 train for woman in the first and the last train. So, today I would like to share a short simple stories about what happen and how SPECIAL is this ladies train.

I used this train everyday to go to my office or if I need to meet with someone during holiday, and I always have something when I put down my earphones. Someone said that ladies train, aka KKW, I will called that as KKW because if I translate that literally Kereta Khusus Wanita means special train for ladies, is like a big field to start HUNGER GAMES. But, I really enjoy that because I am a woman and I don't need to worry about who is next or behind me. I am not sure about my thought, but I heard a lot that a lot of things happen on a normal train. I observed a lot and I also learnt a lot from they stories, I didn't want to hear that but they talk out loud so I think that most of the passenger know what are they talking about.

So, I would like to describe a "native" KKW on board.

1. JARANG SEKALI melihat pengguna KKW yang cantik-cantik gimana gitu.

mungkin karena nanti di kantor baru tukeran & dandan kali yah, biasanya yah gitu aja pake baju yah seliweran aja, terus juga ga kaya gimana padahal kalo turun di daerah perkantoran, pakenya sendal jepit, sendal gunung (entah kenapa memilih itu), sendal teplek, crocs entah ori ato kw, dkknya. 

Setelah itu biasanya jenis tas yang digunakan juga beragam, tai lebih banyak yang menggunakan ransel dengan rantang makanannya, dan kalo berdiri selalu ditaro di atas, dan ketika kereta sering bermain kebut berhenti barang itu ada yang jatuh juga, dan kadang kena yang lagi tidur duduk di bawah dan sepertinya berat.

2. GIRLS TALKS untuk hampir seluruh isi GERBONG

yeah mungkin karena suaranya yang ber volume cukup besar sehingga jika keretanya masih sepi yang speaknya mau tidur sih tapi sepanjang jalan tetep aja bawel cerita, mulai dari masak di rumah, tetangga yang diusir, hewan peliharaan, tempat makan deket stasiun yang enak, pokoknya macem-macem deh. kalo maen game bahkan tips n trick maen game. 

kebanyakan yang ngobrol itu sih sepertinya umurnya diatas 30 tahun karena omongannya sudah lebih berat, tapi jadi bisa belajar lah. hahaha. kalo anak ababil biasanya ributnya ga penting terus haha hihi ga jelas juga, itu lebih annoying sih karena isinya yah gitu-gitu aja, mungkin karena saya sudah melewati masa itu. hahaha

3. TEMAN USAHA

Pembicaraan biasanya dimulai karena adanya kesamaan terhadap sesuatu misalkan kesamaan nasib ato kesamaan tempat naik atau turun, nah biasanya akhirnya jadi tempat usaha deh jualan ini jualan itu, kalo bagus merembet ke tempat yang lain juga, lumayan lah bukan hanya omongan kosong (Notes : ini bukti nyata dari melihat mama saya dan teman teman keretanya) hahah.

4. ISTILAH SEPI itu RELATIF

YAH... ITU SANGAT RELATIF, walaupun sudah penuh tapi di tengah masih kosong untuk KKW itu masih menandakan bahwa kereta tersebut SEPI, asalkan muka belum menempel di pintu dan masih ada celah yang masih dapat diselipkan, baik ukuran badan tidak menjamin yang kecil tidak bisa masuk yang lebih besar malah bisa, jadi itu agak relatif yah. bisanya perkataan sepi itu dikeluarkan untuk yang tiap hari naik kereta sebagai alat transportasinya

5. Sharing cost jika kereta masalah

Biasanya jika kereta itu masalah yah, mereka akan mencari alternatif lai, biar murah mau kenal ga kenal nanya aja yang searah, biasanya kaum laki-laki belum tentu melakukan hal tersebut sih. atau jika misalkan tidak naik kendaraan spt taxi biasanya convoy buat cari kendaraan umum dan berbagi informasi, rute yang dapat digunakan yang mana dengan membandingkan kecepatan waktu, biasanya hal tersebut berdasarkan pengalaman mereka, termasuk dengan jam-jam khusus yang rawan macet.

6. SALING info kereta posisi dimana maupun masalah ga.

yah, tali pertemanan antara ROKER memang cukup kuat, jadi biasanya tanpa pemberitahuan dari petugas pun para ibu-ibu itu bisa tau ada apa, kira-kira kenapa, mungkin bisa juga karena group pada jalur masing-masing juga sih. tapi canggih aja, infonya juga cepat dan update, kadang bisa janjian juga turun dimana buat makan dulu, terus baru pulang.

7. KURSI BERGILIR

saya sangat sering menemukan hal ini terutama dengan yang sekelompok ibu-ibu, biasanya ada yang telat dateng, tapi yang satunya sudah duduk, biasanya jika sudah setengah jalan mereka tukeran posisi jadi temennya juga tetep duduk deh.

Sejauh ini sih selama 1 minggu hanya dapat saya rangkum menjadi seperti itu, biasanya rumpian ibu itu bisa di dengar kalo keretanya naik feeder yang berarti lebih sepi, dan biasanya pada jam berangkat atau pulang kerja di sekitar jejeran ibu-ibu se-geng. sedangkan kalo anak ababil dapat ditemukan ditengah hari ataupun pada saat agak sore namun tidak telalu malam. SEKIAN

Notes :

untuk updatean dengan bahasa inggris akan disesuaikan kembali, karena butuh mikir dulu nulisanya karena kadang kalo ada inspirasi baru agak diubah sehingga agak berbeda juga, kalo bahasa indonesia mah gampang tiap hari dipake jadinya yah langsung bisa diketik. walaupun mungkin bahasanya juga ga terlalu rapi sih.

Thanks for reading ^^

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Mid Week TALKS : WELCOMING MID 20'S

I am on my early 20's now but will be 23 or I called that number as the beginning of mid 20's. yeah that might around 23-24-25, I had a small talks with my friend yesterday, talked about our life after we graduate, I also read any article related to 23 years old and I felt like I also want to share about my mind, sure you can disagree with me because that might be different to each person.

Mid 20's means that you need to do everything by yourself and you need provide anything by your own, you can't asked your parents for your spending anymore, you need to start your work and earn your own too. 

1. You NEED to decide about your future by yourself

you can't followed your friends or your group decision now, you are an adult now for SURE, when you decide your high school or university you can manage that by the other option that you and your friends can be together, but now your life is your own not theirs.

2. Money is NOT EVERYTHING.

I am not saying that you won't need a money, but not being GREEDY for everything that you are craving for. you can earn a lot, you can spent a lot, but you didn't have your own time to rest or do what you like, you'll regret about that later. you only need ENOUGH money and spent a NORMAL life with your own.

3. Let GOD leads your life.

I am not saying about any religion, sometimes your will is not GOD plans. 

You struggle when you decide where you want to work, who will be the one that will go out with you. Who is your TRUE self ? you have a doubt about your life. but trust HIM and He will provide everything for you.

4. YOUR CALLING

I couldn't say that I know what is the purpose of my life, but I know that I need to set my goal, during the process, my goal might be change but like BOB DOLL said everything that GOD put you on that might be YOUR CALLING. just do everything with what you do now.

5. Life is a cycle.

You can't be on TOP every time, you need to touch the GROUND.

Why ? 

when you touch the ground and can stand up again from that you will surpass what you have before.

you already know how to reach the top, so you will be more humble, because you're nothing before.

6. Love yourself
The truth is when you already have a job you'll get fat soon or later, yeah most of them. So am I, but that might be worst if you don't love yourself, please sleep enough, work enough, and play enough.

7. Family came FIRST
why I put it on 7th when I said that will become the first ? because the 1st till 6th is about yourself, this is the FIRST that I talked about the others. yeah. you'll think that FAMILY would be your priority.

8. No one know you better than yourself
Everyone can tell you everything about you, they said this and that, but THE REAL you who is inside of your heart I think the only one know you better than yourself is GOD. I am not saying that you can't trust anyone but sometimes what they told you will change your inner, you just need to be YOURSELF.

9. Never lean on to people, lean on to GOD
GOD won't ever LEFT you alone, no one never get hurt by the others. Am I wrong ? I felt that sometimes and when you grow up you'll face a lot of things and that would be bother you and your life, you don't need to become BAD to make someone talk about you. YOU'LL ALWAYS HAVE A HEATER

10. Respect the other if you want to be respected by other
I didn't know why I put this one in the last moment that I want to share with you guys, but YOU CAN'T CHANGE SOMEONE but someone can change if she/he saw how your attitude and they will do that to you too. Sometime that didn't works with the older people because they think that they deserve to have that honor, but never asked for that respect, let times do that by themselves.

Okay, this post will be my mid week post for me :) and I would like to say bye 22 and welcome to 23, my 24th years of my life journey will start now. Happy Birthday to ME <3 p="">

YOTNC 2016

Kemarin (13/8) saya mengikuti suatu acara SUPER bernama YOTNC 2016 (Young on Top National Conference), karena baru aja selesai jadi masih FRESH nih. Jadi, saya akan berbagi sedikit cerita mengenai apa yang saya dapat hari ini dan apa yang terjadi hari ini :')

Semua itu memang tidak ada yang bersifat KEBETULAN, awalnya saya galau karena saya udah pulang malem juga pas jumatnya dan cape banget naik kereta masalah dan lama banget, tapi ceritanya karena udah bayar, sayang duid juga karena duit sendiri akhirnya bela-belain naek kereta pagi, untung dapet feeder, jadi sepi juga. Abis itu naiklah ojek ke BALAI KARTINI, dan WOW jam 7 kurang aja udah rame, dan ternyata jam 8 itu GATE OPEN, yah I waited for an hour alone :') I felt really sad that time but I was sure that I got something from there. Okay, awalnya dateng cuma karena akhirnya liat ada nama AHOK di salah satu nama KEYNOTE SPEAKER jadi emang pengen aja liat aslinya kan :) yah, saya memang sering melakukan HAL AGAK ANEH sendirian, tapi saya tidak menyesali itu, kalo bukan sekarang kapan lagi saya bisa seperti ini, kesempatan tidak akan terulang dua kali. kalo mau tau ringkasannya bisa dilihat di live tweet saya di twitter saya @fitatha08 dengan hastag YOTNC2016, saya menang loh tweet terbanyak, jadi tenang aja kalian bisa baca updateannya disana yah ^^

Jadi, kalo saya simpulkan dari semua pembicara itu lebih ke BE YOURSELF, you're UNIQUE enough to be DIFFERENT, ketahui diri kita sendiri lebih dahulu, PLAN apa yang kita mau lakukan, SETTING OUR GOALS dan hidup itu PROGRESS jadi bisa saja berubah ditengah jalan, bisa saja tidak sesuai dengan rencana, bisa saja GAGAL dan banyak kemungkinan lain yang dapat terjadi selama perjalanan itu, SUKSES merupakan suatu hal yang mungkin bisa di artikan dalam banyak hal, walaupun terkadang SUKSES identik dengan kesuksesan materi semata, tapi yang saya tangkap adalah memberikan IMPACT bukan hanya untuk diri sendiri tapi juga kepada orang lain. Gimana caranya itu juga menurut saya itu tergantung dengan style masing-masing orang, tidak ada RAHASIA yang bersifat GENERAL, untuk hal yang GENERAL mungkin kalian bisa belajar dari orang, tapi untuk suatu hal yang lebih DETAIL kalian harus belajar dari KESALAHAN, KEGAGALAN, dan SIKAP kita dalam menghadapi MASALAH tersebut.

Setiap orang bisa memiliki banyak PEMIKIRAN dan PENAFSIRAN terhadap apapun yang diucapkan oleh orang, setiap orang punya cara yang berbeda untuk belajar, dan JANGAN PERNAH BERHENTI untuk BELAJAR, WORLD KEEP MOVING, apakah kita hanya akan diam saja ? SATU hal yang pasti yang membuat saya merasa bahwa INDONESIA adalah NEGARA saya dan sifat NASIONALISME bukanlah suatu OMONGAN KOSONG belaka. Ceritanya emang saya gak sampe gimana sih, tapi saya bangga sebagai orang INDONESIA dan saya berharap bahwa saya dapat memberikan dampak untuk INDONESIA, yah MIMPI yang cukup berat, apa yang bisa saya lakukan, apa yang harus saya siapkan, kenapa saya harus melakukan hal tersebut, saya pun belum mendapatkan jawaban atas semua pertanyaan tersebut, saya hanya dapat menjawab bahwa SAYA untuk INDONESIA dan INDONESIA itu SAYA. Ketika saya memiliki mind set seperti itu walaupun saya ada dimana pun saya akan tetap sebagai INDONESIA :)

Orang sukses itu memiliki kesamaan dalam banyak aspek, berikut akan saya paparkan beberapa hal yang dapat saya tangkap dan tanggapan saya, ini hanya tanggapan saya loh.

• Selalu melihat ke DEPAN, ketika kita sudah memiliki GOAL yang pasti melihat ke DEPAN bukanlah hal yang sulit, tapi ketika perjalanan itu masih ABU-ABU kemungkinan untuk menengok kembali ke BELAKANG dan menyesali sesuatu itu lebih BESAR dibandingkan dengan fokus melihat ke DEPAN
• Waktu itu SANGAT BERHARGA, yah waktu itu sangatlah berharga bagi mereka yang SUKSES, namun sayang sekali kalo waktu itu hanya digunakan untuk BEKERJA, gunakan waktu tersebut untuk MENIKMATI HIDUP anda yang PENDEK ini. Habiskan waktu dengan KELUARGA, REKAN, dan mungkin ketika sukses kita sering sekali merasa bahwa TUHAN mengerti kok, tapi tidak ada salahnya untuk memberikan WAKTU anda untuk TUHAN minimal 1 JAM sehari, anda masih punya 23 JAM untuk BEKERJA
• Mencoba itu BAIK, ketika kita tidak pernah mencoba kita tidak pernah tau caranya, kita tidak dapat hanya belajar dari orang lain saja, karena walaupun masalahnya sama hal tersebut dapat berdampak beda. GAGAL itu biasa pada saat anda MENCOBA.
• KEEP LEARNING, yah BELAJAR itu adalah KEWAJIBAN kalo kalian mau jadi SUKSES. DUNIA gak akan nunggu kalian, tapi kalian yang harus CATCH UP dengan PERKEMBANGAN yang ada, jangan malu buat BERTANYA dan mengambil KEPUTUSAN walaupun itu TIDAK SELALU BENAR.
• Cari PANGGILAN anda & bagaimana anda BERSIKAP dalam menjalani PANGGILAN tersebut.
• Kenali diri sendiri dan kenali lawan bicara anda, THE ART of COMMUNICATION is needed.
• Disiplin itu KUNCI yang selalu dikatakan oleh banyak pembicara, disiplinkan diri anda dari sekarang, menurut teori jika anda melakukan sesuatu selama 21 hari berturut-turut maka itu akan menjadi HABIT, jadi bentuklah HABIT yang baik seperti DISIPLIN.

Sekian UPDATE dan pemikiran yang dapat saya paparkan, semoga dapat bertemu lagi di minggu depan dengan UPDATEan yang baru, tapi memang agak random sih, tapi saya akan berusaha untuk lebih baik lagi, jika ada masukan dan kritikan kalian dapat meninggalkan di box comment dibawah.

TERIMA KASIH, 

selamat beraktivitas kembali di awal minggu

Cheers,

Fita

FAITH & RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD

It's been a while after I wrote about religion. 

I already joined a class for being a servant and being the seeker of God in my church.

I think that I already know everything, because I was doing that things before.

I left my church activities and I think that I am good enough now.

I never think something that I though before, my focus for my weekly routine to church is the only GOD, I didn't want to become the one who serve, I am enough now.

But, I tried to heard my calling, I tried to joined this class, I need to spare my weekend to joined this class every week, during eid mubarak holiday we also need to come and take a class :(

I know that when I look to someone I might be disappointed again, but this class make me know that everywhere that I go HUMAN is always a HUMAN, they can't become someone who 100% good enough to become the angle church people, the only think about served GOD is about our heart and our relationship with GOD.

So, I'll start my stories about Faith & Relationship with GOD.

FAITH ? what is FAITH ? why we need a FAITH ? I asked that for a several times in my life, why I need to have a faith when I can't trust anyone. FAITH in GOD when I saw that my life is in the bottom of the curve, when I think that time would be my BEST time in my life, I did everything for GOD, why GOD did that for me ? I have a FAITH that GOD will help me soon, but this time GOD really takes HIS times too long, I waited for almost 3-4 years to know that everything that God did in my life is for the best for me, and when I have my FAITH I must to keep praying not denied my calling. I left everything, I know that I still have a faith, and in BIBLE on Matthew 17:20 said that He replied, "Because you have so little faith. Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you." that really happen for me. GOD provide everything for me, during my university life, my internship, and my work now.

I think FAITH also have a really tight connection with your relationship with GOD, 

I also don't have that really intimacy relationship with GOD for sure, I just came to the church every week and that only my routine schedule because my parent asked me to do that. I never pray for a good things, I only pray when I need to eat, I need to sleep and to help to wake up in the morning. But, with that little prayer He heard me, yeah, HE REALLY HEARD ME. sometimes, I felt like He left me, I can't find my way, what I need to do, what I can do as I am. But, He always sent someone that I never think will let me know that, I think God wants to make me BACK to my start point this time. 

In the beginning of 2016, 

I said to myself that I'll be back to the CHURCH, but everything really hard to me,

I left everything before me and I place my trust in GOD, 

When I start to think that I'll do that, HE HEARD ME again, and I FAIL again,

I am too busy to think about me and my life.

I tried to do everything that I never did before, I left my PROMISE behind.

So, when I saw that this class will be held on Sunday, I force myself to join,

I went to that place ALONE, I didn't know anyone.

But, I have a better community, I have a chance to know more about GOD,

I have a chance to spent my time more to studied about LIFE and how GOD makes my life completed. 

This kind of RELATIONSHIP is not really like the one who deserved their life to church.

But, I know that when I tried to built this GOOD RELATIONSHIP with GOD, I will have a FAITH that bigger than before and I trust that HE will PROVIDE everything, He was there on every path on my life journey. I tried to asked GOD everything that I need to do, what kind of behavior that I need to take to face my problem and how can I become someone that will be the light and become someone who will be like HIM. 

I know that I am not perfect, but I know that GOD give me an ANSWER when I have a little FAITH to tried my best :D

SATURDAY MEETUP

Today, I have a friend from Korea that I know only from email and we never met before and we just make an appointment to met a week ago, we never talk a lot we just say that yeah, ok we will meet later. But, today I felt like we talked a lot yeah a lot to spent like 1/4 day, for a hour ride to the place we had for lunch, then take a walk and use the wrong one, that we decide to go to Mall Taman Anggrek and tried shirayuki and another Indonesian food, because I didn't know that she will left 2 weeks from now and she never tried a lot of things that REALLY INDONESIA.

We had our lunch at Ikan Bakar Cianjur, because sundanese food is not really familiar with her and she likes that, yeah I hope she really enjoy that. we met at Grand Indonesia before and take an uber, but the uber driver took a long way trip, that really have a traffic jam and it takes an hour ride, yeah but I still have a free ride so, I just need to pay 10 000 more to the driver. the restaurant not too crowd because the lunch time already passed and we order some food that quite famous as an sundanese food, yeah. the normal ones but the things that she never tried before. than we walked to trans jakarta station and we took a bus to Harmoni (the station that we want to transit), but we took the wrong bu that directly go to Mall Taman Anggrek, so we decide to visit MTA then. we tried shirayuki and the time just passed by and that already 6 p.m and she need to come back. So, I decide to buy some BATAGOR and PEMPEK for her and her husband for dinner. 

I just really want to her know that Indonesia hava a lot of things that she need to tried before she left and I hope that she will enjoy her holiday in Indonesia.

But, I learn a lot about korean and she also know a lot about Indonesia, she said that Bahasa is cute if she pronounce that with korean dialect, but I think that a lot of similarity between Indonesia culture and Korea culture, so I already decide that I will come to Korea for sure next year, yeah I need to save more to stay for at least a week there T.T and I'll visited there after summer, because she still in US until that time.

It's really nice to know a lot of people, become a SMART people maybe make you have a little friend, but I am not really agree with that because I want to know a lot, I can't have a small world, I have a little of BEST BEST FRIENDS, but for being my FRIENDS, I think that I want to have a lot of them ^^

Part 2 : Daily Life as a Commuter

This month would be really hard for me because I need to change my routine when I can used a feeder train from and to my office to home, but during this fasting month I need to come early and did what I did during my uni days.. yeah sparta !! But, this time made me remind a lot of things and I can told you the really situation using commuter line as my main transportation. yeah I love that fore sure because I have a lot of stories from my daily journey.

So, let me told you about my daily life as a commute !! most of the stories are from on rush hours so the situation might be really really crowed and everyone need to get on to the train because they need to go to their office or need to come home early before the other team from another train come and join them to play HUNGER GAMES. During di fasting month the officer said that the passengers were increase up to 30%, wow !! yeah the normal one already that CRAZY how come another 30% would like to get that chair :") and some of the might be a newbie who never used the train before. you can read my post about newbie on the commuter line on this link : http://lifelovelaughstories.blogspot.co.id/2016/05/part-1-commuter-line-newbie.html

1. You can't be PRETTY enough before you arrived at your destination 

That's really true !! I'll explain why and I will told you about my experience when I prepare a lot did my hair do and put some make up, everything were gone when I arrived on my destination. #lol the sweat and some action that another passenger did to me made all of my works gone :( 

Life in Jakarta is though girls !! Esp on the train for woman (only) yeah you need to underline that only because everyone who come to the only woman side if there are not a woman they will accepted a boo from almost the whole train.

2. Keep Calm & SPARTA mode ON

I think everyone who used commuter line have their own SPARTA mentality to get in and get out from the train. Sometimes you need to get out when another 30 passengers wait to get in and your train come and you need to wait for at least 15 minutes for the next train :( that quite hard to describe that with the words.

Sometimes, the other passengers help you to get in by pushing or pulling you. That would be really like a fight and the supporter support you from behind and make you want to get in more than give up ~ that just what I think. We never talk before, maybe we met but like no one care. That I called as commuter line friendship.

3. They said that will be easier to get an enemy than a friend. Yeah that might be true especially as a commuters ~~ 

I told you before but I already mention as some newbie who like to shout too. so I think that sentence was true. We have a friend that we don't know and also a lot of enemy that really only think about themselves and always be the center of everything. The things that I used to use a normal train which can be used both by female and male, sometimes the male wouldn't have the seat for the woman who stand and they might be get out on the next station T.T I am as a woman also think that if I only need to wait for one or two station I always gave my seat to the one who I think more need that me, but I never gave that to the one who step on my foot when I sit and she was standing in front of me T.T zzzz. 

4. The most effective method to train to be PATIENCE 
they said that practice makes perfect, SURE that might be really TRUE that to become a patience people you need to meet with someone that make you not patience enough to speak with them. First time I really upset to the other passengers that always talks and always upset to the others, but now days I think everything is really nothing. yeah you can be more patience if you heard something like that everyday ~

5. The law of JUNGLE is exist.
when the people did something to you sometimes you did the same to them, yeah most of them did something like that. the accident might be not on purpose, but i don't know but I felt like I am satisfied when they did like that and I did the same things, but not every time I did that.

6. SMELL ? sometimes the smell of the passengers are quite unique.
a bunch of people, used a different kind of a perfumes. when the air con is not working that well the sweat from the passengers are messed up and the smell is really bad sometimes. the air con also gave us a hot air not a cold air as well. yeah that really messed and make me want to angry ! and the signal to enter the next station were stop for 30 mins T.T wow....

7. PRIORITY SEAT doesn't means that you can do everything that you want.
yeah the priority seats might be in the end on every train, but the other seats also the priority when the needed one is need to seat, but sometimes the priority seats become something that they used as they want, like sleeping but lay down at the whole seat, and the child didn't want to sit, but the parents want that, so the child might be disturb the other because they were jumping at the seats.

8. YOU CAN SLEEP EVERYWHERE in the train
Stand up didn't means that you can't sleep on the train, yeah if the train is really packed, nothing is impossible in the train. you can sleep while you are standing and you wont falling ~ lol

P.S : sorry for my late update but I hope you like it ^^