Mid Week TALKS : WELCOMING MID 20'S

I am on my early 20's now but will be 23 or I called that number as the beginning of mid 20's. yeah that might around 23-24-25, I had a small talks with my friend yesterday, talked about our life after we graduate, I also read any article related to 23 years old and I felt like I also want to share about my mind, sure you can disagree with me because that might be different to each person.

Mid 20's means that you need to do everything by yourself and you need provide anything by your own, you can't asked your parents for your spending anymore, you need to start your work and earn your own too. 

1. You NEED to decide about your future by yourself

you can't followed your friends or your group decision now, you are an adult now for SURE, when you decide your high school or university you can manage that by the other option that you and your friends can be together, but now your life is your own not theirs.

2. Money is NOT EVERYTHING.

I am not saying that you won't need a money, but not being GREEDY for everything that you are craving for. you can earn a lot, you can spent a lot, but you didn't have your own time to rest or do what you like, you'll regret about that later. you only need ENOUGH money and spent a NORMAL life with your own.

3. Let GOD leads your life.

I am not saying about any religion, sometimes your will is not GOD plans. 

You struggle when you decide where you want to work, who will be the one that will go out with you. Who is your TRUE self ? you have a doubt about your life. but trust HIM and He will provide everything for you.

4. YOUR CALLING

I couldn't say that I know what is the purpose of my life, but I know that I need to set my goal, during the process, my goal might be change but like BOB DOLL said everything that GOD put you on that might be YOUR CALLING. just do everything with what you do now.

5. Life is a cycle.

You can't be on TOP every time, you need to touch the GROUND.

Why ? 

when you touch the ground and can stand up again from that you will surpass what you have before.

you already know how to reach the top, so you will be more humble, because you're nothing before.

6. Love yourself
The truth is when you already have a job you'll get fat soon or later, yeah most of them. So am I, but that might be worst if you don't love yourself, please sleep enough, work enough, and play enough.

7. Family came FIRST
why I put it on 7th when I said that will become the first ? because the 1st till 6th is about yourself, this is the FIRST that I talked about the others. yeah. you'll think that FAMILY would be your priority.

8. No one know you better than yourself
Everyone can tell you everything about you, they said this and that, but THE REAL you who is inside of your heart I think the only one know you better than yourself is GOD. I am not saying that you can't trust anyone but sometimes what they told you will change your inner, you just need to be YOURSELF.

9. Never lean on to people, lean on to GOD
GOD won't ever LEFT you alone, no one never get hurt by the others. Am I wrong ? I felt that sometimes and when you grow up you'll face a lot of things and that would be bother you and your life, you don't need to become BAD to make someone talk about you. YOU'LL ALWAYS HAVE A HEATER

10. Respect the other if you want to be respected by other
I didn't know why I put this one in the last moment that I want to share with you guys, but YOU CAN'T CHANGE SOMEONE but someone can change if she/he saw how your attitude and they will do that to you too. Sometime that didn't works with the older people because they think that they deserve to have that honor, but never asked for that respect, let times do that by themselves.

Okay, this post will be my mid week post for me :) and I would like to say bye 22 and welcome to 23, my 24th years of my life journey will start now. Happy Birthday to ME <3 p="">