Single and Mingle

I saw some of my friends promote their friends as a single and ready to mingle. I think that's what the problem for 25 years old and older people about life, marriage, career, and future.

Why someone being single?
That's deppend on each individual but I think most of them is too comfortable being alone and they think they can do everything by their own. Is it really like someone who never been loved by the others? I think no, I know maybe someone like you but they might be not sure how to approach you or maybe they did that but we refuse to accepting someone like us 😂

I think being single is a blessing for me, because I can do whatever I want and I can just like anyone. Hahaha. I cannot be own with anyone. Hahaha. But, it doesn't mean that I don't need a companion. Sometimes, I think I need, but when I think of that I am thinking again why I need to waste my time to have a relationship that I know won't last for a long time. Hahaha

Ready to mingle, actually this part a bit ambiguous for me. The real example that I tried is using a dating apps. I know I tried but when we tried to communicate to each other I only things that they only want to have a romantic relationship not being a friend. That's good but that's irritated me. Maybe I am just too independent or I don't know why. I think about that and try that again and that just like a never ending cycle.

So, I think I am single but I am not ready to mingle if the only purpose is romantic relationship. But, I heard that if you want to have a relationship with your opposite sex means that you have an interest in someone life, but that will be change when you are going deeper and that will be the one that will destroy your relationship as a good friend. Hahaha. I am still not sure about that, but I know for sure sometime I know but I tried to denied that, because if I am not doing that I might be too confident with myself and that's not me 🤔