Marriage (?)

Recently, I was thinking a lot of things about relationships and even I search online about that. The last question about romance relationship is about marriage.

I have a friend and my supervisor decide to be single for her lifetime and she is almost 70 now. Hahaha. When me and my friend talked about it, marriage is a needed for human. My guy friends told me before that as a woman I need to consider about that because if they don't have a child their life will be lonely.

Okay, after a long talk I think marriage is needed but I don't think that having a child is a MUST! But, my friend also said if you don't have a child there is no reason for your marriage and the possibility of divorce will be higher because nothing to be fight for.

Marriage is a complicated things for me, I even don't know that much about being in a relationship but I think marriage is about commitment and you need to living with the same person for the rest of your life. Is it fun to living together? I don't think so, especially when you are getting older and have your own business and after that need to take care your family, that's not an easy task to do.

Let's start with the marriage reception, how much we need to spent to do the bridal and grooms things, the building, the photographer, food, invitation, honeymoon, a lot of things to prepare. And the wedding photography, pre wedding, post wedding, maternity. That's too much to do only for a single things called an early stage of marriage.

When you or your partner decide to have a baby, you need to calculate a lot of things again. One of my friend said when we have a child it means the blessing and the blessing will come afterwards. But, I don't want my children only become a normal one. I think I also will force my children to be someone I want so I think having a child is not good for both of us (me and my child in the future). Hahaha

Marriage is not only about commitment but also trust to each other and give them their personal space. And most of them said that marriage is not as good as being single. Hahahaha

I am 26 years old now, and I think I need to consider about marriage soon. My cousin already married now and even they already have a kid. Hahaha. But I even don't know how to define the feeling of the romance relationship 😊😊