The Movie : Alice Through The Looking Glass

It's been a while after I watched any movie on theater :) I really love Jhonny Depp and I know that I really love alice stories. So, I have a short time after my work so I decide to watched this movie, and I found out something that really interesting especially about TIME. 

I felt that Alice really don't want to grew up, but she is not a peter pan so she was grow older. I don't really know why the stories start with her journey as a ship captain. But, I felt like sometime everyone also have a really BIG DREAM and they have their own ambition to reach that dream. you can do anything impossible when you think that everything have their own possibility. :)

How about grow up ? yeah we need to face the TRUTH that we are grow older and older, someone who is younger than us already waiting to have the ADULT status when we still couldn't move on that we need to be an ADULT. Being old means that you need to take more responsibility and how you can manage yourself. your parent won't tell everything that you need to do.

This movie told me about how precious is our FAMILY and our TIME, we couldn't change the past but we can learn from that, every decision that we would take later might be the result what we do NOW, and what we need to face now is what we did before. time flies, and if you can take that time again I think something like that might be happen again because YOU are YOU. 

The authority might be give you some pressure in your life, but what will you do to face that is your own will. 

I felt like I am not sure why I need to like this movie when this movie started, but I really love this movie when the movie END :) I learn a lot, and if you have enough time to watched and hang out with your friends, I really recommend this movie.

ENOUGH for today ! :)

Special Edition : Special TRAIN for a WOMAN

Hello ! I supposed to post this article like two weeks ago or three weeks ago,
I am not really sure about that but this post is really late after I post in Bahasa version.

So, I already told you that in JABODETABEK they have a special train for woman, every commuter line has 2 train for woman in the first and the last train. So, today I would like to share a short simple stories about what happen and how SPECIAL is this ladies train.

I used this train everyday to go to my office or if I need to meet with someone during holiday, and I always have something when I put down my earphones. Someone said that ladies train, aka KKW, I will called that as KKW because if I translate that literally Kereta Khusus Wanita means special train for ladies, is like a big field to start HUNGER GAMES. But, I really enjoy that because I am a woman and I don't need to worry about who is next or behind me. I am not sure about my thought, but I heard a lot that a lot of things happen on a normal train. I observed a lot and I also learnt a lot from they stories, I didn't want to hear that but they talk out loud so I think that most of the passenger know what are they talking about.

So, I would like to describe a "native" KKW on board.

1. JARANG SEKALI melihat pengguna KKW yang cantik-cantik gimana gitu.

mungkin karena nanti di kantor baru tukeran & dandan kali yah, biasanya yah gitu aja pake baju yah seliweran aja, terus juga ga kaya gimana padahal kalo turun di daerah perkantoran, pakenya sendal jepit, sendal gunung (entah kenapa memilih itu), sendal teplek, crocs entah ori ato kw, dkknya. 

Setelah itu biasanya jenis tas yang digunakan juga beragam, tai lebih banyak yang menggunakan ransel dengan rantang makanannya, dan kalo berdiri selalu ditaro di atas, dan ketika kereta sering bermain kebut berhenti barang itu ada yang jatuh juga, dan kadang kena yang lagi tidur duduk di bawah dan sepertinya berat.

2. GIRLS TALKS untuk hampir seluruh isi GERBONG

yeah mungkin karena suaranya yang ber volume cukup besar sehingga jika keretanya masih sepi yang speaknya mau tidur sih tapi sepanjang jalan tetep aja bawel cerita, mulai dari masak di rumah, tetangga yang diusir, hewan peliharaan, tempat makan deket stasiun yang enak, pokoknya macem-macem deh. kalo maen game bahkan tips n trick maen game. 

kebanyakan yang ngobrol itu sih sepertinya umurnya diatas 30 tahun karena omongannya sudah lebih berat, tapi jadi bisa belajar lah. hahaha. kalo anak ababil biasanya ributnya ga penting terus haha hihi ga jelas juga, itu lebih annoying sih karena isinya yah gitu-gitu aja, mungkin karena saya sudah melewati masa itu. hahaha

3. TEMAN USAHA

Pembicaraan biasanya dimulai karena adanya kesamaan terhadap sesuatu misalkan kesamaan nasib ato kesamaan tempat naik atau turun, nah biasanya akhirnya jadi tempat usaha deh jualan ini jualan itu, kalo bagus merembet ke tempat yang lain juga, lumayan lah bukan hanya omongan kosong (Notes : ini bukti nyata dari melihat mama saya dan teman teman keretanya) hahah.

4. ISTILAH SEPI itu RELATIF

YAH... ITU SANGAT RELATIF, walaupun sudah penuh tapi di tengah masih kosong untuk KKW itu masih menandakan bahwa kereta tersebut SEPI, asalkan muka belum menempel di pintu dan masih ada celah yang masih dapat diselipkan, baik ukuran badan tidak menjamin yang kecil tidak bisa masuk yang lebih besar malah bisa, jadi itu agak relatif yah. bisanya perkataan sepi itu dikeluarkan untuk yang tiap hari naik kereta sebagai alat transportasinya

5. Sharing cost jika kereta masalah

Biasanya jika kereta itu masalah yah, mereka akan mencari alternatif lai, biar murah mau kenal ga kenal nanya aja yang searah, biasanya kaum laki-laki belum tentu melakukan hal tersebut sih. atau jika misalkan tidak naik kendaraan spt taxi biasanya convoy buat cari kendaraan umum dan berbagi informasi, rute yang dapat digunakan yang mana dengan membandingkan kecepatan waktu, biasanya hal tersebut berdasarkan pengalaman mereka, termasuk dengan jam-jam khusus yang rawan macet.

6. SALING info kereta posisi dimana maupun masalah ga.

yah, tali pertemanan antara ROKER memang cukup kuat, jadi biasanya tanpa pemberitahuan dari petugas pun para ibu-ibu itu bisa tau ada apa, kira-kira kenapa, mungkin bisa juga karena group pada jalur masing-masing juga sih. tapi canggih aja, infonya juga cepat dan update, kadang bisa janjian juga turun dimana buat makan dulu, terus baru pulang.

7. KURSI BERGILIR

saya sangat sering menemukan hal ini terutama dengan yang sekelompok ibu-ibu, biasanya ada yang telat dateng, tapi yang satunya sudah duduk, biasanya jika sudah setengah jalan mereka tukeran posisi jadi temennya juga tetep duduk deh.

Sejauh ini sih selama 1 minggu hanya dapat saya rangkum menjadi seperti itu, biasanya rumpian ibu itu bisa di dengar kalo keretanya naik feeder yang berarti lebih sepi, dan biasanya pada jam berangkat atau pulang kerja di sekitar jejeran ibu-ibu se-geng. sedangkan kalo anak ababil dapat ditemukan ditengah hari ataupun pada saat agak sore namun tidak telalu malam. SEKIAN

Notes :

untuk updatean dengan bahasa inggris akan disesuaikan kembali, karena butuh mikir dulu nulisanya karena kadang kalo ada inspirasi baru agak diubah sehingga agak berbeda juga, kalo bahasa indonesia mah gampang tiap hari dipake jadinya yah langsung bisa diketik. walaupun mungkin bahasanya juga ga terlalu rapi sih.

Thanks for reading ^^

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Mid Week TALKS : WELCOMING MID 20'S

I am on my early 20's now but will be 23 or I called that number as the beginning of mid 20's. yeah that might around 23-24-25, I had a small talks with my friend yesterday, talked about our life after we graduate, I also read any article related to 23 years old and I felt like I also want to share about my mind, sure you can disagree with me because that might be different to each person.

Mid 20's means that you need to do everything by yourself and you need provide anything by your own, you can't asked your parents for your spending anymore, you need to start your work and earn your own too. 

1. You NEED to decide about your future by yourself

you can't followed your friends or your group decision now, you are an adult now for SURE, when you decide your high school or university you can manage that by the other option that you and your friends can be together, but now your life is your own not theirs.

2. Money is NOT EVERYTHING.

I am not saying that you won't need a money, but not being GREEDY for everything that you are craving for. you can earn a lot, you can spent a lot, but you didn't have your own time to rest or do what you like, you'll regret about that later. you only need ENOUGH money and spent a NORMAL life with your own.

3. Let GOD leads your life.

I am not saying about any religion, sometimes your will is not GOD plans. 

You struggle when you decide where you want to work, who will be the one that will go out with you. Who is your TRUE self ? you have a doubt about your life. but trust HIM and He will provide everything for you.

4. YOUR CALLING

I couldn't say that I know what is the purpose of my life, but I know that I need to set my goal, during the process, my goal might be change but like BOB DOLL said everything that GOD put you on that might be YOUR CALLING. just do everything with what you do now.

5. Life is a cycle.

You can't be on TOP every time, you need to touch the GROUND.

Why ? 

when you touch the ground and can stand up again from that you will surpass what you have before.

you already know how to reach the top, so you will be more humble, because you're nothing before.

6. Love yourself
The truth is when you already have a job you'll get fat soon or later, yeah most of them. So am I, but that might be worst if you don't love yourself, please sleep enough, work enough, and play enough.

7. Family came FIRST
why I put it on 7th when I said that will become the first ? because the 1st till 6th is about yourself, this is the FIRST that I talked about the others. yeah. you'll think that FAMILY would be your priority.

8. No one know you better than yourself
Everyone can tell you everything about you, they said this and that, but THE REAL you who is inside of your heart I think the only one know you better than yourself is GOD. I am not saying that you can't trust anyone but sometimes what they told you will change your inner, you just need to be YOURSELF.

9. Never lean on to people, lean on to GOD
GOD won't ever LEFT you alone, no one never get hurt by the others. Am I wrong ? I felt that sometimes and when you grow up you'll face a lot of things and that would be bother you and your life, you don't need to become BAD to make someone talk about you. YOU'LL ALWAYS HAVE A HEATER

10. Respect the other if you want to be respected by other
I didn't know why I put this one in the last moment that I want to share with you guys, but YOU CAN'T CHANGE SOMEONE but someone can change if she/he saw how your attitude and they will do that to you too. Sometime that didn't works with the older people because they think that they deserve to have that honor, but never asked for that respect, let times do that by themselves.

Okay, this post will be my mid week post for me :) and I would like to say bye 22 and welcome to 23, my 24th years of my life journey will start now. Happy Birthday to ME <3 p="">

YOTNC 2016

Kemarin (13/8) saya mengikuti suatu acara SUPER bernama YOTNC 2016 (Young on Top National Conference), karena baru aja selesai jadi masih FRESH nih. Jadi, saya akan berbagi sedikit cerita mengenai apa yang saya dapat hari ini dan apa yang terjadi hari ini :')

Semua itu memang tidak ada yang bersifat KEBETULAN, awalnya saya galau karena saya udah pulang malem juga pas jumatnya dan cape banget naik kereta masalah dan lama banget, tapi ceritanya karena udah bayar, sayang duid juga karena duit sendiri akhirnya bela-belain naek kereta pagi, untung dapet feeder, jadi sepi juga. Abis itu naiklah ojek ke BALAI KARTINI, dan WOW jam 7 kurang aja udah rame, dan ternyata jam 8 itu GATE OPEN, yah I waited for an hour alone :') I felt really sad that time but I was sure that I got something from there. Okay, awalnya dateng cuma karena akhirnya liat ada nama AHOK di salah satu nama KEYNOTE SPEAKER jadi emang pengen aja liat aslinya kan :) yah, saya memang sering melakukan HAL AGAK ANEH sendirian, tapi saya tidak menyesali itu, kalo bukan sekarang kapan lagi saya bisa seperti ini, kesempatan tidak akan terulang dua kali. kalo mau tau ringkasannya bisa dilihat di live tweet saya di twitter saya @fitatha08 dengan hastag YOTNC2016, saya menang loh tweet terbanyak, jadi tenang aja kalian bisa baca updateannya disana yah ^^

Jadi, kalo saya simpulkan dari semua pembicara itu lebih ke BE YOURSELF, you're UNIQUE enough to be DIFFERENT, ketahui diri kita sendiri lebih dahulu, PLAN apa yang kita mau lakukan, SETTING OUR GOALS dan hidup itu PROGRESS jadi bisa saja berubah ditengah jalan, bisa saja tidak sesuai dengan rencana, bisa saja GAGAL dan banyak kemungkinan lain yang dapat terjadi selama perjalanan itu, SUKSES merupakan suatu hal yang mungkin bisa di artikan dalam banyak hal, walaupun terkadang SUKSES identik dengan kesuksesan materi semata, tapi yang saya tangkap adalah memberikan IMPACT bukan hanya untuk diri sendiri tapi juga kepada orang lain. Gimana caranya itu juga menurut saya itu tergantung dengan style masing-masing orang, tidak ada RAHASIA yang bersifat GENERAL, untuk hal yang GENERAL mungkin kalian bisa belajar dari orang, tapi untuk suatu hal yang lebih DETAIL kalian harus belajar dari KESALAHAN, KEGAGALAN, dan SIKAP kita dalam menghadapi MASALAH tersebut.

Setiap orang bisa memiliki banyak PEMIKIRAN dan PENAFSIRAN terhadap apapun yang diucapkan oleh orang, setiap orang punya cara yang berbeda untuk belajar, dan JANGAN PERNAH BERHENTI untuk BELAJAR, WORLD KEEP MOVING, apakah kita hanya akan diam saja ? SATU hal yang pasti yang membuat saya merasa bahwa INDONESIA adalah NEGARA saya dan sifat NASIONALISME bukanlah suatu OMONGAN KOSONG belaka. Ceritanya emang saya gak sampe gimana sih, tapi saya bangga sebagai orang INDONESIA dan saya berharap bahwa saya dapat memberikan dampak untuk INDONESIA, yah MIMPI yang cukup berat, apa yang bisa saya lakukan, apa yang harus saya siapkan, kenapa saya harus melakukan hal tersebut, saya pun belum mendapatkan jawaban atas semua pertanyaan tersebut, saya hanya dapat menjawab bahwa SAYA untuk INDONESIA dan INDONESIA itu SAYA. Ketika saya memiliki mind set seperti itu walaupun saya ada dimana pun saya akan tetap sebagai INDONESIA :)

Orang sukses itu memiliki kesamaan dalam banyak aspek, berikut akan saya paparkan beberapa hal yang dapat saya tangkap dan tanggapan saya, ini hanya tanggapan saya loh.

• Selalu melihat ke DEPAN, ketika kita sudah memiliki GOAL yang pasti melihat ke DEPAN bukanlah hal yang sulit, tapi ketika perjalanan itu masih ABU-ABU kemungkinan untuk menengok kembali ke BELAKANG dan menyesali sesuatu itu lebih BESAR dibandingkan dengan fokus melihat ke DEPAN
• Waktu itu SANGAT BERHARGA, yah waktu itu sangatlah berharga bagi mereka yang SUKSES, namun sayang sekali kalo waktu itu hanya digunakan untuk BEKERJA, gunakan waktu tersebut untuk MENIKMATI HIDUP anda yang PENDEK ini. Habiskan waktu dengan KELUARGA, REKAN, dan mungkin ketika sukses kita sering sekali merasa bahwa TUHAN mengerti kok, tapi tidak ada salahnya untuk memberikan WAKTU anda untuk TUHAN minimal 1 JAM sehari, anda masih punya 23 JAM untuk BEKERJA
• Mencoba itu BAIK, ketika kita tidak pernah mencoba kita tidak pernah tau caranya, kita tidak dapat hanya belajar dari orang lain saja, karena walaupun masalahnya sama hal tersebut dapat berdampak beda. GAGAL itu biasa pada saat anda MENCOBA.
• KEEP LEARNING, yah BELAJAR itu adalah KEWAJIBAN kalo kalian mau jadi SUKSES. DUNIA gak akan nunggu kalian, tapi kalian yang harus CATCH UP dengan PERKEMBANGAN yang ada, jangan malu buat BERTANYA dan mengambil KEPUTUSAN walaupun itu TIDAK SELALU BENAR.
• Cari PANGGILAN anda & bagaimana anda BERSIKAP dalam menjalani PANGGILAN tersebut.
• Kenali diri sendiri dan kenali lawan bicara anda, THE ART of COMMUNICATION is needed.
• Disiplin itu KUNCI yang selalu dikatakan oleh banyak pembicara, disiplinkan diri anda dari sekarang, menurut teori jika anda melakukan sesuatu selama 21 hari berturut-turut maka itu akan menjadi HABIT, jadi bentuklah HABIT yang baik seperti DISIPLIN.

Sekian UPDATE dan pemikiran yang dapat saya paparkan, semoga dapat bertemu lagi di minggu depan dengan UPDATEan yang baru, tapi memang agak random sih, tapi saya akan berusaha untuk lebih baik lagi, jika ada masukan dan kritikan kalian dapat meninggalkan di box comment dibawah.

TERIMA KASIH, 

selamat beraktivitas kembali di awal minggu

Cheers,

Fita

FAITH & RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD

It's been a while after I wrote about religion. 

I already joined a class for being a servant and being the seeker of God in my church.

I think that I already know everything, because I was doing that things before.

I left my church activities and I think that I am good enough now.

I never think something that I though before, my focus for my weekly routine to church is the only GOD, I didn't want to become the one who serve, I am enough now.

But, I tried to heard my calling, I tried to joined this class, I need to spare my weekend to joined this class every week, during eid mubarak holiday we also need to come and take a class :(

I know that when I look to someone I might be disappointed again, but this class make me know that everywhere that I go HUMAN is always a HUMAN, they can't become someone who 100% good enough to become the angle church people, the only think about served GOD is about our heart and our relationship with GOD.

So, I'll start my stories about Faith & Relationship with GOD.

FAITH ? what is FAITH ? why we need a FAITH ? I asked that for a several times in my life, why I need to have a faith when I can't trust anyone. FAITH in GOD when I saw that my life is in the bottom of the curve, when I think that time would be my BEST time in my life, I did everything for GOD, why GOD did that for me ? I have a FAITH that GOD will help me soon, but this time GOD really takes HIS times too long, I waited for almost 3-4 years to know that everything that God did in my life is for the best for me, and when I have my FAITH I must to keep praying not denied my calling. I left everything, I know that I still have a faith, and in BIBLE on Matthew 17:20 said that He replied, "Because you have so little faith. Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you." that really happen for me. GOD provide everything for me, during my university life, my internship, and my work now.

I think FAITH also have a really tight connection with your relationship with GOD, 

I also don't have that really intimacy relationship with GOD for sure, I just came to the church every week and that only my routine schedule because my parent asked me to do that. I never pray for a good things, I only pray when I need to eat, I need to sleep and to help to wake up in the morning. But, with that little prayer He heard me, yeah, HE REALLY HEARD ME. sometimes, I felt like He left me, I can't find my way, what I need to do, what I can do as I am. But, He always sent someone that I never think will let me know that, I think God wants to make me BACK to my start point this time. 

In the beginning of 2016, 

I said to myself that I'll be back to the CHURCH, but everything really hard to me,

I left everything before me and I place my trust in GOD, 

When I start to think that I'll do that, HE HEARD ME again, and I FAIL again,

I am too busy to think about me and my life.

I tried to do everything that I never did before, I left my PROMISE behind.

So, when I saw that this class will be held on Sunday, I force myself to join,

I went to that place ALONE, I didn't know anyone.

But, I have a better community, I have a chance to know more about GOD,

I have a chance to spent my time more to studied about LIFE and how GOD makes my life completed. 

This kind of RELATIONSHIP is not really like the one who deserved their life to church.

But, I know that when I tried to built this GOOD RELATIONSHIP with GOD, I will have a FAITH that bigger than before and I trust that HE will PROVIDE everything, He was there on every path on my life journey. I tried to asked GOD everything that I need to do, what kind of behavior that I need to take to face my problem and how can I become someone that will be the light and become someone who will be like HIM. 

I know that I am not perfect, but I know that GOD give me an ANSWER when I have a little FAITH to tried my best :D