Life to the Fullest! 😘

My mom told me that I did everything that I love and I think that will be right and my mom also worried after I told her that I don't have enough time to traveling. For 25 years of my life I always do whatever that I want and I always break the rules and I really hate when I need to stay at the cage. But, my world is going upside-down now ~ What I define as PERFECT life is really hard to achieve when everything is in control everything well organized. My friend said that I am totally freak with that routine and everything in place. No No, I am not that kind of FREAK people who want everything in the right place. I also love to be messy but I think that depend on with someone that I think that closed enough with me. hahaha.

Now, I would like to write about what I think to life to the fullest if they said YOLO (You Only Live Once) I'll say just stayed to be yourself. I just read Jessica Hagy's book How to be INTERESTING and I think that I found someone who have the same idea with me about how to have an interesting life. It's not only about how much you have, how many friend that you have, and how your life in the other people eyes. No No No. It's more than that because your self satisfaction is determine by you and only you. No one will know what kind of things that will satisfied you.

This is how I tried to life to the fullest with my own version of happiness !! It's will be vary to everyone. It's only what I want to write (before China block the VPN and I can't write this blog anymore). 

1. Be yourself! YES YOU!

You'll never WRONG to be YOU. You have your own preference, your own standard and your own style. Why you need to be someone else when you are more than enough when you become yourself. I think when you brand yourself as what you want people think about you and brainwash the other what you want them to see you. It doesn't matter what people think and what people say behind your back, no one will be that perfect until no one talk about them. Everyone has their own mistakes and you can't make everyone like you, just make sure that you have more friend than enemy. hahaha

2. Never say ENOUGH

After I watched the greatest showman, it's a big mistake to always say never enough but that the truth. That a human being to say that I am not ENOUGH. hahaha. From the other point of view I think its a really great way to achieve something big and bigger than you think. It's okay to be greedy for something and have a really BIG DREAM. For me, if I say enough to something means that I will stop doing that or I never do that again. I will STOP and not getting what I want and sometime I am regret about that. I have a lot of regret but I also couldn't turn back time. The only thing than I need to set is never say enough to whatever that I want the most.

3.Everything is POSSIBLE, you just need to TRY

I remember about "What Faith Can Do" song,  -Impossible is not a word it's just a reason for someone not to try- that's what the lyrics said. You will never know what will happen if you never try. You need to try, and sometimes you need to fall down and then struggling and then want to die but you need to wake up and try again. TRY and TRY again. Everything is POSSIBLE at the right time with right people, so you need to find the right partner to be crazy with you and to accomplish that with you and has a same vision with you. I told to myself that if I don't want to fail just never try but I also never know what will be happen next if I accomplish that. Dream will always be a dream until you wake up and make it happen.

4. It's okay to be ALONE, but you won't feel LONELY

Several days ago, I talked with my friend and he said that I need to have more ME time ~ I tried this before I went out ALONE, but I look around and I felt that I am not lonely. That will be the golden time for you to realized what good and to be grateful with you have. Trust me that will be the greatest way to healing your exhausted day.

5. TRAVELING MORE, it's not about how far you go
I am not telling you to spend all of your money for traveling, you need to get some sunlight ~ Traveling is about getting something new at new place with new people (stranger maybe).

6. EAT. PRAY. LOVE
I never think before that I will think this movie title will be really good way to describe how you have a fullest life. First think that you need to remember is FOOD, and then you need to keep praying to your GOD because that will be a HOPE and the last is LOVE from the others, your family, your friends, your dogs, just anyone around you. hahaha.